May 2013
52 posts
Anonymous asked: Was e-rocki serious when she said she was going to unfollow you?
Wear your scars like jewels →
honeymanifesto:
rzvzee:
I am telling you this because I wish someone had told me this. Girls, when you get in your early 20s it’s important for you to get married. Do not delay your marriage. If you get a good proposal say yes! Don’t reject good boys by giving stupid excuses. —
I realize this is from a sincere and heartfelt place so I just wanted to give my opinion on what you have...
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e-rocki replied to your post: Well meaning advice for Muslim girls in their early 20s: Get married!
Im going to unfollow you
Ok.
Dawah is not the blog you run that only three people read. Da’wah is not a...
– Sheikh Abdul Nasir Jangda in YC2013 (via bageltard)
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And this is for boys- don’t wait till you are 30 to get married.
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Well meaning advice for Muslim girls in their...
I am telling you this because I wish someone had told me this. Girls, when you get in your early 20s it’s important for you to get married. Do not delay your marriage. If you get a good proposal say yes! Don’t reject good boys by giving stupid excuses. I know getting married is scary and all. Especially because we go the arranged marriage way but trust me the consequences of delaying...
Are you wondering how much a particular person you...
Well I have heard from a reliable person that there is a saying of Imam Ali(as) that when you want to know how much a person likes you, you must look in your heart and try to gauge how much you like that person, that person likes you as much as you like him/her.
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At the hijab shop, I had a disagreement with the...
It’s a very famous hijab store in South Bombay where you get wellstitched customized hijab. i went there alone to get my coat stitched And ofcourse they wanted my measurements. So I was like you can ask a female assistant to take my measurements. To my surprise the owner said that there aren’t any female asiistants to take my measurements! I was like,” what! I am not going to...
I have realized that I never use tumblr to discuss all my achievements or the fun things which happen in my life or the good things.
I just use it to whine and rant. It’s just a place where I write my problems. Anyone going through my tumblr will think my life is full of problems. Which will actually be incorrect. I have many problems but Allah has blessed me in many ways and many things....
I’ve done something really stupid and unintentionally screwed up my friends life in a major way. Why?
I wish I had a time machine and could go back and undo everything :(
There is always a reason.
The Prophet (saw) said, "Do not delay in three...
I didn’t know about the marriage hadith.
It’s a really hot sunday afternoon. very boring. everyone at home is quite irritable. I wish we had an AC.
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me: avoids getting in the shower
me: avoids getting in the shower
me: avoids getting in the shower
me: avoids getting in the shower
me: gets in the shower
me: i have ARRIVED IN PARADISE AND I SHALL NEVER LEAVE
I kinda miss the mean comments sent by my anonymous tumblr stalker. But I suppose it’s good that he/she has got a life now.lol!
muslimah2thebone reblogged your link: badass muslim girl: An Islamic Bill of Rights for Women in the Bedroom by Asra Nomani
Mutah is not permitted in sunni islam
Yes,it’s not but misyar is.
badass muslim girl: An Islamic Bill of Rights for... →
choobear:
rzvzee:
faineemae:
Women have an Islamic right to respectful and pleasurable sexual experience.
Women have an Islamic right to make independent decisions about their bodies, including the right to say no to sex.
Women have an Islamic right to make independent decisions about their partner, including the right…
Women have an Islamic right to exemption from criminalization or...
I think I should do my work now. Lots to do.Miles to go before I sleep.
Anonymous asked: that list is obviously for married women, especially the ones about having sex. There's nothing wrong with seeking proper sexual education and saying no to having sex, especially as a punishment
badass muslim girl: An Islamic Bill of Rights for... →
faineemae:
Women have an Islamic right to respectful and pleasurable sexual experience.
Women have an Islamic right to make independent decisions about their bodies, including the right to say no to sex.
Women have an Islamic right to make independent decisions about their partner, including the right…
Women have an Islamic right to exemption from criminalization or punishment for...
guidance in the purest form: hallucigenia313:... →
hallucigenia313:
Converts, when you are learning islam from someone, be sure to learn their bias. You don’t want to learn about deobandis from a maliki and you don’t want to learn about the shia from a salafi.
You can only learn about a belief system from the people who practice it. Have…
therestlessrooh replied to your post: I was already feeling jumpy today.
Can you change your number?
That will be extremely inconvenient.
dudebrofondue:
doesnt seeing a smiley face make you smile :) :?
This doesn’t apply to the first class compartments of Mumbai local trains. When I smile at people they dont smile back. In the second class compartments people are friendly. Or maybe because I’m a hijabi :S
trinimummy replied to your post: I am finding this whole process of getting…
Aww hugs, I pray you find a solution…
Thank you dear. May be I just need to be more patient., I wish I was more pious.
I was already feeling jumpy today.
I was getting smses from an unknown number. Some random guy wanted to do “frandship” with me. This is happening more often now, I don’t know how to make this stop. anyway, I was walking on the road today and suddenly, I heard a male voice from behind, “Hey, Beautiful! “ I can’t describe how terrified i felt when I heard this.
My heart stopped. I turned around to see who it was. It was my elder...
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spoonsofcoughsyrup replied to your post: I am finding this whole process of getting…
have you prayed istakhara?
No, One of the reasons why I’m not married yet is becauseof istekhara. My istekhara never comes positive for any proposal. So I decided to stop seeing istekhara.And also because I read somewhere that seeing istekhara for marriage is not a necessity. But now that you have...
Sometimes I feel that I shouldn’t get married. I fantasize about being single my whole life. But who am I kidding? I have to get married. sigh.
If my younger self looked at me now, she would be very disappointed.
I really need Imam’s help. I have screwed up my life royally.
Things to do:
Plan a youth camp for girls- activities, videos etc.
Do literature review for my research paper
Formulate data format for SPSS Help with formulating an activities based syllabus for young Islamic class students. Fill the application form for my passport.
Do boring dataentry work which I volunteered for in the first place (Why?)
Help Baba in planning his workshop for tomorrow. There is more but...
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I’m dying of hunger but I’m too tired to get up and make something to eat. I have started hating Maggi. I used to love it now but I hate it. The minute I put it in my mouth, I get the horrible soapy taste. But it’s so easy to make.
Where is Hasan? Where is Husayn? Where are the children of Husayn? The whole...
– Dua Nudba (via binteali)
Need to crash, Have work tomorrow. It’s been quite sometime since I’ve tumblred till I fell asleep. Anyway, Goodnight all :)
I just want to clarify
I don’t hate all men. I hate most men :)
shiatali-deactivated20130517 asked: Share 10 random facts about yourself and then pass this on to 10 of your followers :)
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lightoftheheavens replied to your post: Schizophrenia and my friend.
Yes I am a selfish bastard.
Get lost!
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spoonsofcoughsyrup replied to your post: Schizophrenia and my friend.
Why is he selfish, though? If he can’t handle it, you can’t expect him to. My cousin had a husband who was bipolar and she left him for that reason. It just got too much for her.
May be because she got the disorder AFTER she married him and I’m 100% sure that if her husband had got this she wouldn’t have abandoned...
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Schizophrenia and my friend.
A good friend of mine who suffers from schizophrenia has relapsed again. The most difficult part is when I spoke to her on the phone, she said in an anguished voice, “Why am I on anti psychotics? The doctor is saying I have schizophrenia! Life is so difficult, How am I going to live with this disease!..”and she went on to say somethings related to her persecutory delusions. The strange...
Many girls are better than boys
– Imam Hadi (as) infroming Yahya Ibne Zakariya about the sex of his unborn child
Biharul Anwar, Vol. 9, Chap. 3, Pg. 142; Kashful Ghummah, Pg,
247
(via 14noor)
The formula for a public assassination is: the character assassination before...
– Malcolm al Shabaaz predicts his murder exactly like his grandfather did.