To be with the truthful

e-rocki:

thebeautyofislam:

Advice to the Muslim men out there who are “living it up for a bit.”

thebeautyofislam:

..don’t think that by not guarding your chastity now, youll have a “muhtarama” or pious woman in the future as your spouse. dont you dare think for a split second that youll do “what you got to do now” and expect a wife who is a pure and blessed woman. dont think or even dare - for a mere second - believe that everything in your future is going to be great and religious while youre doing your immodest business now. 

you wont get her. you wont get the girl that will birth righteous children. you wont get that woman that will support you intellectually, religiously, and spiritually. you wont be blessed with a wife who will understand and confront you when you need her. and you wont attain a righteous partner who will make you happy and ease your life during difficult times.

wake up because this life is not a game. sex is not a game. dating every single girl on the block isnt a game. checking out that chick isnt a game. watching how that girl moves isnt a game. being at the clubs isnt a game. being shameless isnt something that shouldnt be taken seriously. wake up. 

repent to allah. realize that you will die and then you will be brought back in front of allah and your genitals will speak out to allah and say yes, he didnt control me for your sake. realize that your hands will speak for you while your mouth is shut and will confess to allah that yes, he touched her and her and her without any shame. realize that all your body parts: your tongue, feet, and eyes will speak before allah and you will have no absolute power to say anything.

you want to make things right? stop. slowly but surely; you need to do this. you need to be a man and show your sister that you have respect for her. you need to be a man and realize that you need to be busy protecting your mother. you need to wake up and get rid of those “friends” who are destroying you by making you believe that these things wont come back to haunt you. you need to be the man for the muslim women out there who are getting abused cause of their hijab. be a man to the muslimahs who are being ridiculed for their love for allah. be a man and recognize that allah created you and will one day bring you back to him. 

i love all my muslim brothers, for the sake of allah i do. it hurtts me to watch you live like this. please. wake up and make a change. be another man who will educate others about women’s rights in islam. be another abd (servant) of allah and seek help from him. quit the life you once thought would fulfill you and start new. 

its time. quit living it up and start humbling down because youll really never know what day will be your last. and if you want her, allah will give her to you. 

^^love this and thank u so much for posting this. Definatly needs to be read by every man and woman. The only thing i wanted to add is that sadly enough, alot of Arabs i know live exactly like this, living it up and partying and what not, and when it comes time for marriage, the girls here are all of a sudden “too slutty for them” so they go and marry some poor chick overseas. Sigh

I don’t want to be a spoiler here but in what I’ve seen and observed in the society till now. Men can get away with anything. Really. Muslim men can behave as they want- have girlfriends, drink alcohol, party or do whatever immoral thing they want to do. They can get away with it. And they know that.

Even the most immoral men get married to really pious women. It’s really not fair on the pious women but pious women usually go in for arranged marriages. They will marry whoever their parents choose for them and sometimes parents deliberately or unknowingly marry them to such men. This happens because religion is not the criteria for selecting the spouse- wealth, family status,education, job, lineage is the criteria. Even the most pious fathers feel tempted to marry their daughters to wealthy men even when they are not that religious.

When I say men can get away with it, I am talking about this world. For the akherah it’s a different story…