Sarwar ne uthae the sab saathiyon ke laashey,
shabbir teraa laashaa ab kaun uthaega?
Zahra Zahra Shabbir ka pursa lo,
Zahra Zahra Pursaa lo bahattar ka…
We are being tested according to our connection with Imame Zamana(as).
Are we going to be like the people of Kufa who abandoned the Imam of their time?
My mother was telling me that during her youth and earlier getting new black clothes for Muharram was unthinkable. Shias used to get their old clothes dyed black. Also ,syeds used to wear black clothes for the entire mourning period i.e two months and eight days.
:::::The Marriage of Imam Ali and Lady Fatima (s.a):::::
Written by: Ayotullah Nasir Makaram Shirazi::
The Holy Prophet of Islam (peace be upon him and his progeny) said: “In the event that Ali would not have been created, there would have been no one worthy to be Fatima’s spouse.”
The extraordinary virtues of Lady Fatima (peace be upon her) on one hand, her blood relations with the Prophet on the other hand, and the nobility of her family furthermore, caused many of the high-ranking supporters of the Prophet to propose to her; but all heard negative answers. Each time, the Prophet would usually answer them, saying: “Her matter is in the hands of her Lord.”
The strangest case was the proposal of Abdul Rahman ibn Awf. A rich man who, by the customs of Age of Ignorance, looked at everything through the viewing window of materialism, he visualized a heavy dowry as a sign of the woman’s personal status and the superior position of the husband. He came to see the Prophet, saying: “If you will give Fatima to me in marriage, I will make her a dower of one hundred camels with loads of precious material from Egypt, along with 10000 Dinars in gold!”
The Prophet was so displeased with this meaningless proposal that he took a handful of gravel and threw it towards Abdul Rahman and said: “You thought that I was a servant of money and wealth that you are expressing pride in your money and wealth!” (Tezkerat al-Khawas)
Indeed, in Lady Fatima’s marriage proposal Islamic examples must be defined, the customs of ignorance suppressed, and the standards of Islamic values made clear.
The people were speaking of these very things when suddenly it was heard everywhere that the Prophet wished to give his only daughter to Ali ibn Abi Talib (peace be upon him) in marriage. Imam Ali did not have access to worldly wealth and possessions, nor did he possess any of the standards of the Age of Ignorance; rather, instead he was from head to toe full of faith and real Islamic values. Indeed, this blessed historical marriage was a heavenly revelation, because the Prophet himself said: “An angel of God came to me and told me that God sends you greetings and says: ‘I have made Fatima the wife of Ali ibn Abi Talib in the highest heavens already, so you should also marry her to him on earth.’” (Dhakair al-Abqa)
When Imam Ali went to the Prophet with his marriage proposal for Lady Fatima, his face was red with shyness. When the Prophet saw him, he became cheerful and smiled, asking him why he had come. But Imam Ali, because of the imposing presence of the Prophet, could not put forth his wish and, as such, remained silent.
Aware of Imam Ali’s intentions, the Prophet said: “Maybe you have come for marriage proposal of Fatima?” He replied: “Yes, I have come for that very purpose.” The Prophet said: “Ali, before you, other men had come for proposal of Fatima. Whenever I informed Fatima of this matter, she would not show her approval. Right now, let me inform her of this conversation.”
It is true that the marriage was heavenly and must take place. But especially because of the high status of Lady Fatima, and to demonstrate the respect and freedom of women in choosing their husbands, it was necessary that the Prophet of Islam should not go ahead in this matter without the consent of Lady Fatima.
When the Prophet described the virtues of Imam Ali for his daughter, he said: “I wish to make you the wife of the best of God’s creation. What is your opinion?” Lady Fatima, who was submerged in shyness and modesty, lowered her head saying nothing and denying nothing. The Prophet raised his head and spoke this historical sentence, which is a proof for Islamic jurists today in relation to the marriage of previously unmarried girls: “God is the Greatest! Her silence is the proof of her agreement.”
Following these events, the marriage contract was concluded by the Holy Prophet.
It is without doubt that the marriage of the Best of Men in the world with the Princess of the World’s Women must in every way be an example
Especially because pride or kibr is the quality of shaitan and Allah hates proud people. I have seen people in my own family who insist that we can’t marry “out” because we are more superior and pure than the rest of the shias.
This pride keeps the sayeds from learning. Most of them are very cultural and are not willing to learn about Islam. They insist that whatever they are doing is right and even if it isn’t!
A number of pilgrims were narrating their experiences of Hajj to Imam Jafar al-Sadiq (‘a), and recounting their views about their fellow pilgrims. One person was immensely impressed by a fellow pilgrim and said, ‘He was truly pious and an indefatigable worshipper of Allah. Whenever we broke journey to rest for the night, he retired to a secluded place, spread out his prayer mat and got engrossed in the worship of Allah.’ The Imam (‘a) enquired, ‘Who looked after the rest of his affairs? Who tended his camel?’ He replied, ‘Obviously, we performed all those duties for Allah’s pleasure. He remained absorbed in the holy acts, and had no time for such menial chores.’ The Imam (‘a) replied, ‘No wonder you achieved more than he did with all his piety and worship.
I was wondering what ordinary shias can do to actually help the shias in gilgit besides reblogging! Awareness is important but that should lead to action. And I really don’t know what I can do to help.
This world is so confusing. I don’t know what to believe in anymore. It would have been so easy to clear our doubts if Imam wasn’t in ghaibat. I hope Imam(as)’s zuhoor happens soon. Inshaallah.
Your pain will always run through our veins! They killed Mohsin, then killed you, they betrayed your son Hassan and slaughtered your son Hussein. They paraded your daughter Zeinab in the streets while wearing chains. And they cursed your husband Ali, the prince of believers in their prayers. We will never forget your day Ya Fatimah! May Allah curse your killers and the killers of your family for all eternity!